3 FIRST DATE IDEAS WITH YOUR ASIAN GIRLFRIEND

Let’s presume you are flying over to Asia to meet your Asian girlfriend. You’ve put serious time into planning this trip and want to leave a lasting impression that would help you to evolve into something more serious, or even better, getting to put a ring on her finger. We have come up with a couple of first date ideas you may want to try out for that important first date. 

Before you start your journey we suggest you surprise her with matching outfits that are custom made for you and her. In Asia people love to show off their being together and matching outfits are very much in. Have two shirts printed with your favourite bands name or the like and offer it to her as a surprise. We are sure she will love it.

1. Themed Coffee Shops

Coffee is very popular, no matter where you go in the world. Asia is no exception. It must be the amazing aroma of coffee that never goes out of style. In Asia there are plenty of themed coffee shops you can take your date to. Firstly this shows that you have done research into the Asian dating cultures and it gives you a bonus point for being adorable. There are cat cafés, puppy cafés, cartoon themed cafés and cafés even for well known board games. Depending on what your Asian girl prefers, there most likely is a café that matches her taste.

2. Towers and Lovelocks

Much like with the bridges of Seine, and others in Europe, lovelocks are a huge thing in the Asian dating culture. Though in Asia they love to climb to the top floor of the highest tower where they can profess their undying love for each other with locks that have their initials on them. People believe that as long as the lock remains solid, the lovers whose initials are carved into the locks will have a long and happy life together. In Seoul it is the famous N Seoul Tower or the Namsan Tower. As an added bonus you have the opportunity of visiting a teddy bear museum on the way up or down.

3. Water!

There are two beautiful places around Seoul where you could continue your date. The first is the Han River and it is the best option if you and your Asian girlfriend want to enjoy a meal. There are plenty of restaurants by the river as well as parks and cafés plus many other fun establishments you can enjoy. If it is later in the evening you can enjoy the Cheonggyecheon stream together. It is a great place at the heart of Seoul where you can wrap the evening up.

3 FIRST DATE IDEAS WITH YOUR ASIAN GIRLFRIEND

4 FASCINATING ASIAN SUPERSTITIONS ABOUT LOVE AND MARRIAGE

We have all heard at least one crazy Asian superstition or belief. As an example, in some parts of Asia it is believed that you should never keep a pet turtle because they will slow down your fortunes. Myths, superstitions and urban legends are a part of the everyday life for most Asian households. Beliefs are passed down from one generation to the next. Some beliefs have a scientific basis while others are just plain strange. Here are a couple of the crazy Asian superstitions about love and marriage.

Don’t give shoes as a gift to a lover. 

Asian women and men both love shoes but in Asia it is believed that if you give your lover a pair of shoes it means that she will run away from you and that will be the end to your fairy tale love story. There is a small loop around this belief though. If your lover has been eyeing a nice pair of shoes for a while and you want to buy them then ask for your partner to give you a small sum of money back. It can even be 2 cents but it’s still as if you sold them to her.

For the married women – wear rings on both of your ring fingers.

This is a Chinese superstition that says that if you are a married woman you must wear rings on both of your wedding ring fingers to ensure that your husband will always love you and will never ever run away with another woman. It is said that it’s best if one ring is made of gold and the other of jade.

There is also a version for single people that says if you want to meet the love of your life soon, you need to wear a yellow gold ring on your right index finger that you can transfer to your right middle finger to make sure a proposal will follow.

Witnessing a solar eclipse with your lover means your love will last forever.

In Asia rings have a lot of superstitions revolving around them. It is mainly because a circle goes on forever and there is no beginning or end to it. In several parts of Asia, it is believed that if you and your partner get to witness a full solar eclipse together and you can see the full corona you will stay together forever. Note how this event can be a great date idea.

Dreaming of finding a snake means meeting your soul mate.

This belief is for singles. If a single person has a dream of finding a snake fret not because it means something positive. In parts of Asia people believe that it means you will soon find the love of your life and step into a new era of your life. Beware though, if you see a black snake in a dream and it tries to bite you or choke you, it means that something terrible is going to happen.

This concludes our list of interesting Asian superstitions but more can be found online. Come back soon for more articles on the Asian dating culture.

4 FASCINATING ASIAN SUPERSTITIONS ABOUT LOVE AND MARRIAGE

4 UPSIDES ABOUT DATING A CHINESE WOMAN

A lot of people have a fascination with the Oriental cultures. The women from that part of the world have always been the center of attention to western men. When we say Orient or Far East what we typically mean is China, Korea and Japan. There are similarities in these cultures and the physical attributes of the women who all have their own unique style and then there are things that set them apart. In this article we focus on what are some of the perks to dating a Chinese woman.

Perk no.1 – Chinese women are very sweet 

The Chinese culture is ancient, almost as old as history itself and in this culture, unfortunately the women are not as respected as the men. Because of this fact women have developed a way to cope and that is their mentality of being sweet, adorable and cute in order to be liked and also to get their way. This has gone on for a long period of time and has reached the modern era where it has finally become very natural to them. Whenever she needs something from you she will ask it the nicest and most adorable way possible so it is difficult to turn her down. One is very lucky to be in a relationship with someone like that.

Perk no.2 – They Cook Very Well

Who doesn’t love someone who can cook? Chinese families raise their daughters to be very knowledgeable about cooking and every family has their own signature dish as well as secrets they hand down through the generations. You will definitely be impressed with what your adorable Chinese girl can make in the kitchen. You will get addicted to her amazing meals and won’t be missing the take-out from your local Chinese restaurant back home.

Perk no.3 – Perfect Genes. She Will Look Young

There is something amazing about the Chinese genes that is expressed in how the people seem to age incredibly well. It is thought that it has something to do with how healthy this nation has been eating since the dawn of ages and it’s probably true. Also it is very popular with the Chinese to exercise and pay regular visits to the doctor to check up on their health. Your partner may be 35 but she will look like she’s 20 and it will go on for a while. Her beauty will last longer than her western counterparts beauty.

Perk no.4 – She Wants Your Approval

The Chinese culture values hospitality probably higher than any other nation on the planet. That is why guests are treated with the utmost respect in Chinese homes. This trait will translate into how the Chinese women are naturally eager to please. They were raised in a culture where women are expected to be caring and serve. There is a downside to this that may be difficult for you to get used to – she may not voice her own opinion enough and you may be at a loss of what her own preferences may be.

4 UPSIDES ABOUT DATING A CHINESE WOMAN

10 ASIAN QUOTES THAT CAN MAKE YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE

Among many other things, Asia is well known for their high quality romantic comedy movies. Plenty of them have been adapted to the Western silver screen but the original ones are still far better with conveying the heart melting ideas of love between people.

That is the reason why most Asian girls have a specific understanding of what their love life should be about – it is thanks to the many Asian romcoms.

Therefore dropping one a great line from a movie is a great way to impress the Asian woman you are talking to. This can really work in your favour so pay very close attention.

We have listed 10 quotes from Asian movies that can really make you believe in love:

1. “When you love a woman, she becomes a drink. She becomes the moon. She becomes the song. Then, she turns into your world.” – Flower Boy Ramen Shop

This is a line from a South Korean Comedy series with the lead character being an arrogant boy who’s father is the biggest food conglomerate in Korea and he works at a ramen shop.

2. “If they are really in love, I don’t think that would matter so much…A house itself doesn’t really matter to the couple. To the couple who are in love, their heart would be their favorite home.” – Winter Sonata

This is from yet another South Korean TV series where the lead character is a talented sun of a musician who is going around looking for information about his past life in a rural city.

3. “If you love next time, just feel. Don’t plan it or assure yourself.” – It’s okay. That’s love.

This quote also comes from South Korea. It’s a drama series where the lead character is a bestselling mystery writer who happens to fall in love with a psychiatrist on her first year of fellowship.

4. “People who love each other end up reuniting. No matter how far apart they are, they will reunite in the end. Love is something that returns.” – Stairway to Heaven 

Another wonderful South Korean television series where two childhood sweethearts are separated by serious events in their lives and families.

5. “Giving a loving glance, and sharing a warm meal together…and all those other shining moments filled with love and laughter…will become your reward for loving someone unconditionally like that.” – The Master’s Sun

Another television series from South Korea. This one is a horror-romantic comedy – a rare genre where the lead character is a greedy CEO who crosses paths with a rather gloomy girl who started seeing ghosts after an accident.

6. “We don’t love because of trust, but we trust because we love.” – Cyrano Agency

This one is a romantic comedy from South Korea. In this story a successful agency helps people with their love lives – they help them find dates.

7. “Feelings can creep up just like that. I thought I was in control.” – In the Mood for Love

This is a classic Chinese movie where two close friends realize that their partners are cheating on them and start falling in love with each other.

8. “You know what fate is? Building a bridge of chance for someone you love.” – My Sassy Girl (Korean version)

My Sassy Girl originates from South Korea. The story is of a college student who gets involved with a very self-centered young woman.

9. “It’s not enough to accept me for what I am, You also have to accept me for what I’m not” – When Love Begins

When Love Begins is a romantic comedy from the Philippines where the story revolves around two people who have strong feelings for each other but who are afraid of commitment.

10. “There are people you meet for the first time, but feels like you’ve known them for a long time.” – Hello Stranger

A Thai movie where two people meet and end up going home together during a festival named Songkran.

Take your time

It may even be better if you actually watched some of the movies where you want to draw quotes from. This way you can have a good conversation if your Asian partner knows where the quote is from. Come back soon for more Asian dating tips.

10 ASIAN QUOTES THAT CAN MAKE YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE

3 GOOD REASONS TO DATE ASIAN WOMEN

Like with all differing cultures in the East and West, women from different parts tend to be desirable in their own very unique way. There are perks to dating women from each part of the world but in this article we are focusing on dating women from Asia.

Asian ladies are cultured and educated

Asian women if they live in the cities get a good education and have access to learning about culture. You will never run out of things to talk to them about. Not only that. The Asian culture is still very traditional and women are raised to be well behaved and well mannered. They know their way around the household since they were brought up to take care of it. Asian women can be a great mixture of a loving homebody and a well educated wife and mother.

Though more women are climbing on the corporate ladder most still state that they are very interested in settling down and starting a family.

Asian ladies have timeless looks

All Asians have to hear the question how they stay so skinny even though they eat carbs (noodles, rice and so forth) most of the time. The secret is in the Asian metabolism. Most of them are born with a very fast one and that makes them burn excess calories very fast. Another reason is that they are very active and typically always on the go (walking, running or working out). That helps with maintaining their metabolism and their looks.

Another thing is the genes they have for looks. Asian people age very well and everyone wonders what is their secret. It lies in eating well and taking care of your health. Something that is natural and expected in Asia.

Asian ladies show commitment

There is nothing more important in Asia than family. A close second is work but family always comes first. Children are brought up to respect their elders and people always consider advice from their family. Taking care of each other is an absolute priority. This is what gets Western guys want to date Asian women. They will bring the same commitment into the family they create on their own. Loyalty and commitment comes of course when the man has respect for her. Lying, cheating and abuse is unacceptable. Treat her well and have a happy home life forever.

3 GOOD REASONS TO DATE ASIAN WOMEN

6 THINGS THAT MAKE ASIAN WOMEN REALLY ATTRACTIVE

What is this magic that Asian women posses that make guys melt? First of all it’s not magic. There are plenty of little things that contribute to their overall attractiveness and we’ll discuss 6 of them today. They were difficult to choose since there are so many to pick from but here are 6 things we think make Asian women sexy:

1. Their Eyes

Sounds like the most stereotypical thing anyone could say but it’s true. It’s the amazing shape of their eyes. Depending on which part of Asia she is from she may have almond shaped eyes or thin slanted eyes, big round eyes and so on. Her eyes are one part of what makes her exotic nature come out.

2. The Frame of Their Bodies

Everybody knows this about Asian women – they are slender in frame. It’s the most typical body type you can find in Asia. Surely this doesn’t apply to everyone but it definitely applies to the majority. It’s not common to be obese in Asia.

This is all thanks to their healthy ways of eating – the rice, fish and meat.

3. Their Long Black Hair and Porcelain Skin

It is really obvious that the longer your hair is the more feminine you look. This idea was published in a very popular women’s magazine. The study conducted to see what kind of hair is most attractive to guys.

Most Asian women love to grow their hair and although hair colouring has become more of a trend, Asian women tend to stay very natural.

Their complexion is also another key factor in what makes her sexy. Asians are very proud of the way they love to take care of their skin(even the guys).

4. Placing Importance on Family

All Asians have very close family ties. For most guys – the respect Asian women have for their parents and their family is really attractive. They respect the elderly and love to take care of people. Every guy that wants a family is passionate about women like that.

5. Food Adventures

Yes, the amazing Asian cuisine. There are tons of words to describe Asian cuisine and one of them should definitely be “adventurous”. If you’re dating Asian women you’ll soon figure out that she has a lot of knowledge about cooking – all that adds to her attractiveness.

6. Accents?

This may go either way. What kind of accents you find attractive is very individual. There may be also very strong accents that you may not be too fond of but you’ll figure it out when you have video chats with the ladies.

What do You Think?

That concludes our list. Which of these traits in Asian women do you find sexy? Are there a few more you’d like to share with us? Leave your comments below.

6 THINGS THAT MAKE ASIAN WOMEN REALLY ATTRACTIVE

CHARACTERISTICS OF ASIAN WOMEN MEN ADMIRE

Everyone has preferences with regards to the kind of person they want to meet. When you happen to want to date Asian women, you’d be into someone who is kind, caring, loving, sexy, adventurous, affectionate, romantic and so forth. The list can go on and on. You want someone to be everything that you dreamed of. There are a few key characteristics you want these women to have:

1. They Should Be Open-Minded

Most women from Asia are very traditional with how they live and how they think. Her way of life can be later influenced by another culture but her way of thinking will most likely stay the same. This may be a source for future conflict since your cultures are very much the opposite.

2. Good Level of English

This is hugely important when establishing a relationship. It is of course possible for her to take lessons in the future but you may want to skip the waiting part on that one. Communication is the key factor in a healthy relationship.

3. Family Oriented

This can depend on your personal preferences and also priorities but in the long rund you’d like someone who wants to build a future with you. We suspect you’re online dating for that reason.

4. More Extroverted in Their Nature

Asian women are very modest and that may not suit your way of being. You may want someone who is much more lively and sunny. That type will be comfortable with your friends, more open with you, more likely to engage in fun activities with you.

5. Great at Household Chores

This sounds kind of bad but it’s usually what Western guys are looking for in Asian women. There’s nothing wrong with finding someone who is into these activities. In some parts of the world after all it is completely accepted that the guys work and women take care of the home and the family.

What do You Think?

It is important to be aware of what exactly you’e looking for and these tips about Asian women should also be taken into consideration.

CHARACTERISTICS OF ASIAN WOMEN MEN ADMIRE

4 QUALITIES EVERY ASIAN WOMAN WANTS IN A MAN

Single Asian ladies are interested in very specific qualities that they want their dream man possess. Note that these qualities have nothing to do with looks. Dating in Asia isn’t like it is the West where it is just as important for the guy to look great as it is for the woman. A typical Asian woman is willing to look past the fact that the guy isn’t Brad Pitt.

1. Being Understanding and Kind 

We have done some research and found that these characteristics are in the top 10 of what Asian women have written on Asiandate.com. They want someone who is willing to put in the effort of getting past cultural differences and also the language barrier that may be a concern at the beginning. It takes both understanding and kindness to help you get past the issues.

This also means that if you have kindness you also have the following:

You’re not compative.

You are patient.

You are objective.

Your decisions are mature.

Every woman wants these qualities in their partner. If you think about it you may want the same things in a woman as well.

2. Being Accepting of Her Family

Family is hugely relevant in Asia. People have incredibly close relationships with their family and if they don’t get to meet on a regular basis they still keep in contact over the phone and take advice from family members. Getting together around holidays is a must. When you get into a serious relationship with an Asian woman you are expected to participate.

3. Being Accepting of Her Culture

This applies even if you are already in a serious relationship and you two have decided that she will move to your country. Everything from what she loves to eat and how it is important to take shoes off inside the house to how holidays are celebrated need to be taken seriously.

Your culture may be very influential for her two if she moves over there but she will always have a stronger bond to hers. People can be flexible but don’t expect her to change her world.

4. Hardworking and Goal-Oriented

Asians have a very good work ethic as you may have already heard. Work and school come first. It doesn’t even matter if they’re not fans of what the job is, they will still put a lot of effort into it and expect you to be the same way. This is something that will never change and it’s a place where they won’t compromise.

Do You Possess These Qualities?

We all need to do some growing in some areas of our lives. If you possess all of these qualities then it’s good for you. If you don’t you can put some effort into developing some parts of yourself if you want to seriously date an Asian woman.

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4 QUALITIES EVERY ASIAN WOMAN WANTS IN A MAN

5 SIGNS THAT INDICATE YOU SHOULD PASS ON HER DATING PROFILE

We may not always notice this but there are turn-offs on most dating profiles we come across. We don’t notice because: 1. We didn’t go through the entire profile, 2. We’re paying too much attention to picture (checking out if their physically hot or not), 3. We choose to ignore a lot of the information. Red flags may vary in how serious they are and it is better to know which ones may spell trouble for you. 

We have listed these 5 common red flags on dating profiles you need to look out for:

1. Unusually high number of divorces.

Typically, the online dating sites don’t let people sign up if they have had 3 or even more divorces. It brings the reputation of the portal down and doesn’t offer positive emotions for hopeful people logging on to find love. It doesn’t matter how well written the profile is or how good looking the owner may be – a high number of divorces indicates a red flag. Most likely this person isn’t serious about relationships.

2. Too many inconsistencies.

If you find that someone’s profile picture really catches your eye – don’t send them a message straight away. Instead read their profile through from top to bottom and see if the first impression is still good. The picture may leave you feeling really excited and you may not care about the rest of it but you should be more mindful. Try to see if there are any inconsistencies in the way they present themselves.

Jobs – The profile may say she’s a manager and later you may learn she’s actually still a student.

Physical description – The height, weight and even eye colour may differ.

3. Character issues.

Who wants to date someone who is moody, temperamental, judgemental, cruel, spiteful and so on. Naturally we all have our faults but it doesn’t make sense to parade around with your weaknesses. It is a gigantic turn off for most people. Imagine this: you just met someone and the next minute they say: “I like hanging out with people but I get my feelings hurt very easily.” Or they say: “I love people but most of them are no good!” This is an obvious indication that you are not dealing with a mature person. Move on.

4. Travelling and the luxurious lifestyle.

Most ladies have these points on their profile. Travelling the world seems harmless. It even sounds adventurous but to travel the world in the luxury style means you may be heading for trouble. It is somewhat likely that you’d be expected to pay for it. You need to be mindful that unfortunately some people view online dating as a way to take advantage of others.

5. The number of kids.

This depends on preferences – if you love kids then this isn’t going to be an issue but if you want to wait before you have kids then you need to pass this person.

Is there anything we missed?

We would love to hear your suggestions. Are there more red flags you need to watch out for while online dating? Do you have lots of experiences with online dating and some of its red flags? Leave your comments below and come back soon for more online dating tips.

5 SIGNS THAT INDICATE YOU SHOULD PASS ON HER DATING PROFILE

HOW GET PAST THE AGE FACTOR WHEN ONLINE DATING

If you are reading this article then you probably have concerns about online dating a much younger woman. It’s understandable – you’re getting older, your looks are changing and you don’t really look like a couple. Rather father and daughter.

This article proposes three ways of how to handle getting past the age difference:

Take Care of Your Health

A great way to look and feel young is taking care of yourself. By this we mean focusing on eating right and doing some exercise. You’ll be stunned by how energetic, fit and young you can feel by simply working out. Everybody knows that exercising releases happy hormones. If you mix eating right with exercising you’ll feel even more phenomenal.

Asian Women Don’t Really Care

Age doesn’t matter to most Asian women. That is a fact but before you get excited you need to figure out how come they don’t care. There are tons of scammers out there that don’t care what the age of someone is when they’re trying to take advantage of them.

There’s also the other type – the sincere type. These ladies only care about what kind of a person you are. They are looking for a partner and not a perfect image of Mr. Right.

There is also the type that prefers the older and more mature type – the ones who enjoy the sense of security an older guy has to offer. Simply be natural, be who you are.

In a Nutshell

These tips may come across very basic but sometimes the easiest things are the most difficult to accept. We over think things and that can makes us lose our confidence. We hope this article has helped you see this matter in a new light and that you no longer see the age difference as a problem in online dating.

HOW GET PAST THE AGE FACTOR WHEN ONLINE DATING